Self-care Shouldn’t be Cutting Us Off from Community

Does it sort of feel like everyone’s life is a bit of a mess right now? That’s because life is messy. We’ve reached this weird transitional stage where everyone’s life is both deadly serious and incredibly chaotic. It’s easy in the chaos to focus on ourselves and try to ignore everyone else and if I

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Episode 6: Some thoughts on decreasing polarization

Check out my episode “Episode 6: How to Talk to Anyone ” from WithLoveFromRebelAllianceFiresideChats on Anchor: https://anchor.fm/withloverebel/episodes/Episode-6-How-to-Talk-to-Anyone-e274ra

Episode 5: Don’t get distracted

Check out my episode “Episode 5:Don’t get distracted!” from WithLoveFromRebelAllianceFiresideChats on Anchor: https://anchor.fm/withloverebel/episodes/Episode-5Dont-get-distracted-e25lvh

Episode 4: Don’t be scared of these douchebags and assholes

Check out my episode “Episode 4: Dehumanization: Don’t be scared!” from WithLoveFromRebelAllianceFiresideChats on Anchor: https://anchor.fm/withloverebel/episodes/Episode-4-Dehumanization-Dont-be-scared-e24dje

Stop Treating Your Intimate Partners Like Bucket List Experiences

I had just gotten back from China, when I found myself on a party bus with a guy I was seeing on my way to a formal when he said to me “I just feel like I really want to have sex with a Japanese girl.” Facepalm. I had a conniption fit. And in response

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Fireside Chats: Dehumanization or Why You Need to Drink a Beer with Your Neighbor

Check out my episode “Episode 3: Dehumanization, Intro” from WithLoveFromRebelAllianceFiresideChats on Anchor: https://anchor.fm/withloverebel/episodes/Episode-3-Dehumanization–Intro-e236l0

Argumentation: NOT a Rich People Thing

I’d like to talk about two of my favorite Stanford men. Both of them were STEM majors. These two individuals are two of the smartest people I have ever met in my life. Not only are they capable and amused by scientific and mathematical concepts that would made a normal person insane, but they can

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So Convenient to Ignore Our Soldiers These Days

I just wanted to write what will hopefully read as a friendly reminder that our veterans are our concern too. We don’t stop to think about that anymore. It’s not a public holiday like it once was, military service being something that a small percentage of the population is touched by, we are comfortable with

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Fireside Chats: Agendas and Other Nonsense

Check out my episode “Fireside Chats: Agendas and Other Nonsense” from Heather Charles on Anchor: https://anchor.fm/withloverebel/episodes/Fireside-Chats-Agendas-and-Other-Nonsense-e203rb